A Candid Moment
As many of you know, there have been some major changes going on in my life ... one of which is that I actually have a life.
Not that I didn't before. I must emphasize this so as not to hurt anyone's feelings (as I've found is so easy to do while writing candidly here for the world to see). The marriage I had with Becky did not fail. What happened is that we painfully concluded that we no longer made each other happy. Neither of us are at fault - the problems were around from the very beginning and stem directly from very basic differences in our personalities. There was never a lack of love. In fact, the way I look at it, our separation in itself was the ultimate gift of love to each other. We respectfully, lovingly gave each other our freedom to go find our own paths to happiness. And we have vowed to remain the best of friends forever.
Quite to my surprise, I found my new bachelorhood full of active romance. More so than ever before in my life. And in these exciting, emotional days I have met and fallen in love with someone who is truly my kindred spirit. We have grown inseparably close in the past few weeks and when together the years melt away and we are both teenagers.
If anyone out there was wondering why I'm not writing so much here, this is the reason.
Not that I didn't before. I must emphasize this so as not to hurt anyone's feelings (as I've found is so easy to do while writing candidly here for the world to see). The marriage I had with Becky did not fail. What happened is that we painfully concluded that we no longer made each other happy. Neither of us are at fault - the problems were around from the very beginning and stem directly from very basic differences in our personalities. There was never a lack of love. In fact, the way I look at it, our separation in itself was the ultimate gift of love to each other. We respectfully, lovingly gave each other our freedom to go find our own paths to happiness. And we have vowed to remain the best of friends forever.
Quite to my surprise, I found my new bachelorhood full of active romance. More so than ever before in my life. And in these exciting, emotional days I have met and fallen in love with someone who is truly my kindred spirit. We have grown inseparably close in the past few weeks and when together the years melt away and we are both teenagers.
If anyone out there was wondering why I'm not writing so much here, this is the reason.
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